Sunday, September 07, 2008

Shabbos is for the Working Man

From my Brother-in-Law who joined the workforce after learning in Yeshiva:

" I don't care how much you've learned, you do not REALLY appreciate Shabbos until you've been working the whole week". (Then its a true "Rest".)

Discuss.

18 comments:

Ben-Yehudah said...

B"H

Indeed.

Anonymous said...

totally !!!

ProfK said...

Your BiL at least now understands the difference between work and the rest of Shabbos. I still have students who in all seriousness put down learning in yeshiva as work experience on their resumes, and don't think I'm correct when I tell them it's not.

MAK said...

Just being in college has made me appreciate shabbos so much more. By Tuesday I'm thinking "only a few more days till Shabbos!"

Child Ish Behavior said...

Gotta disagree. I haven't worked an honest day in my life and Shabbos is still amazingly awesome.

Jacob Da Jew said...

BY: Word.

Anon. Yup

Prof K: Ididiotim.

Mak: College is also work...depends on where you go.

CIB: Here's the thing: You might think that Shaboos is awesome, good food etc but you do not appreicate it as a "Day of Rest" until you actually need to rest froma long week of work.

Mikeinmidwood said...

Gotta agree here

Mrs. Lakewood falling down said...

I start counting down the days till shabbos from Monday! While I enjoy my work, I absolutely NEED shabbos! If given a day off each week, I would choose friday b/c I also love preparing for shabbos!!!

Rafi G said...

there is definitely something very true about that... but a real yeshiva guy will respond with something like what does a baalebos know about shabbos? he is relieved shabbos is ehre so he can sleep? that is what shabbos is about?

Ben-Yehudah said...

Well, sleep IS a good thing.

muse said...

Isn't it a Torah Commandment to work six days and then there's Shabbat?

Jacob Da Jew said...

MIM: Yup yup.

Mrs LFD: Wowee. You've been bitten by the blogging bug! Friday is ok as an off day, too much to do and not enough time to chill.

Rafi: Yes, Shabbos is a day of learning too etc but primarly as a day of rest and if ya aint doing anything strenuous, what kind of rest is that?

Muse: Agreed!

BY: YES YES!!! Esp since I'm not getting much of it.

Ben-Yehudah said...

I suppose that has something to do w/a bundle of joy?

Ashrecha.

The Ramba"m states that even a talmid hacham divides his time, for example, 9 hrs. of learning, 3 hrs. of work.

I think there are those out there who learn a super censored version of the Ramba"m, or just give it the ol' "WE don't paskin by the Ramba"m, nanny, nanny, nah!"

shmenglepuss said...

This might sound heretic, but the only day I work is shabbos. People don't make kiddushes and lunches of bar mitzvas, aufrufs, shabbos sheva brachos during the week. That's my business day. During the week I relax :-)

The Babysitter said...

JacobDaJew: That is so true. For those that work, I'm counting babysitting as work, cause it really is physically draining, Shabbos comes as such a relaxing day, you wait a whole week for it! But then other times when I'm not working, then Shabbos is just too long of a day.

Jacob Da Jew said...

BY: Thank you

SP: So you have 6 days of rest eh?

BS: Babysitting is extremely hard work as I have been watching my son for the past few days. Oysh.

Long day indeed, esp in the summer.

Jewish Deaf Motorcycling Dad said...

This got me thinking, and I wound up writing my own post about it. I came from a totally separate direction than your brother-in-law. Someone who worked, but didn't observer Shabbos

http://jdmdad.blogspot.com/2008/09/transitioning-to-shabbos.html

sporadicintelligence said...

I get to sleep on Shabbos. Then I can't sleep Motziah Shabbos, cause I slept to much on Shabbos, and I'm tired on Sunday either way...but naps on Shabbos just feel SOOOooo good, I don't care if I don't sleep later on.